A balanced life necessarely means for me a big part of unknow that will remain unknown untill I overcome it so I get a new perspective that will bring me to a next step. The wheel has to turn always. And for that, you need to look for unbalance. Otherwise, there's no movement, or just illusion of movement, and your evolution is stopped. Just look how you walk. If you really look at the movement of walking, you'll find that what push you from the back to the front is unbalance..! That is a really simple explanation of a more (or even less...!) subtle principle that my friend and teacher Leonardo de Luca calls the 3-1 portal. He explains this in his book The Artist-Entrepreneur, 13 modes of flirting with darkness. And he's a Zaadster too... (go check my friend wall). But to make it simple, balanced life has to be unbalanced! C'est la vie....

The future is still ahead but the present is getting closer.

THE ANSWER. Otherwise we would have found it a long time ago... But it's not that it doesn't exist, or that it does... Whoever has been in the presence of that wisdom (or vision, or truth, or joy, or beauty...?) agree to say there's no word for THIS. Because words are a product of dualism. They're there to name things we seperate from the Whole. Night exists only because day exists. Hard to realise that this only happens in our mind... Everything that is preceived by an I is isolated by his physical, historical, psychological, whateverical point of view...

We're not (yet) programmed to see the Whole thing. But it's our goal. Someone I just read yesterday (Yvan Amar) wrote that God is wishing us to be the witness of the game the univers is playing through us, right now. He's inviting us every second to be the co-author with him of the univers. But we'll ignore most of our lives his invitation, obsessed we're all are by our I. "All through the day, I me mine , I me mine, I me mine"...

When you look deeply into religion, you can see that the relief of the I is the goal. But the I is very smart and will always find a way to bring religion on his side. That's why religion can be used the way it's used...
But like Meister Eckhart said, "water cannot wet itself, fire cannot burn itself, but the light of our spirit has the possibility, because of its unborn, unconditionnal, divine quality, to light itself..." But for that, we need to make space for that to happen. Just like the center of our eye, empty of color, allows all the color to be reflected in it...
Big stuffffff.... I could go on and on and on with that question... but I would seem not to understand what I just said in the beginning: "Words don't fit with the Question..." (My I just loves to quote Itself...)